Cultural Kitchen

When Nodding Means No

Cultural norms are the ways members of a particular culture behave. Different cultures use different gestures in different ways. For example, Americans shake hands as a form of greeting, while Japanese people bow instead. While direct eye contact is generally accepted as showing attentiveness among  Americans, in many cultures it is considered rude or disrespectful. As the world becomes smaller, it is increasingly important to understand these subtle differences between cultures.

Discuss
This picture is from the New York Times. It was taken when
President Bush and Crown Prince Abdullah  of Saudi Arabia met
in Crawford, Texas in April, 2005. What is your reaction to this picture?

How do you think a person from a culture where it is normal for men to hold hands to show equality of status and respect would interpret the picture?

As you read about the following cultural norms in the world, think about why it might be important to be aware of how they differ from your own culture.

1.  In many countries, including  Argentina, Brazil, Chile, Mexico, and Morocco, personal space is small. People stand very close to each other when they are talking. Conversely, in many countries, including Australia, Austria, Belgium, Japan, New Zealand, personal space is large. People stand at an arm's length distance from each other.

2. When riding in a taxi in Australia, it is polite to sit in the front seat. This is an example of how Australians value equality among all people.

3. In Austria, you should remove your shoes when entering someone's home.

4. In Belgium, it is rude to chew gum or blow your nose in public.

5. Being punctual is not a priority in Brazil. Being 15 minutes late is normal.

6. Bulgarians shake their heads to say "yes"and nod to say "no".

7. In Chile, if someone interrupts you as you are speaking, it is a sign that they are interested and engaged in what you are saying.

8. Chinese people spit for good luck.

9. In Denmark, many people are quiet and shy before you get to know them.

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